JV/Reserve teams are to the benefit of the program, not the player. Unfortunately, I hear more stories about lofty promises, and the "potential" of moving to the first team (enter video clip of Rudy getting to dress and lead the team out of the tunnel) than I do kids that actually do. I honestly think they should fade away, and if a player is being recruited with the promise of a reserve team spot, I would encourage them to rethink their recruitment, and refocus on programs where they can/are considered for a true first team roster spot. Regardless of level (D1, D3, etc) the priority of any athlete is to find a place they can potentially play, and even better, play in meaningful games. A college soccer or bust approach, especially when applied to reserve teams is more times than not a bust. I think very similar to a kid with a D1 or bust mindset that ends up being the 5th GK on a mid major program. To each their own, but again, reserve teams seem to serve the coach and program, and more times than not, lead to disappointment for the player.
This is the unfortunate truth. JV/reserve teams are viewed purely as "numbers" from the University's prospective.
One thing that I would suggest for players and parents who are navigating this process is to ask the coach for specifics. If they have been coaching for 3-4 years in the program, you can see if the numbers match the pitch that they are giving in the recruiting process.
For example:
-How many JV/reserve players have earned a spot with the first team?
-How many of these players have earned a spot in the rotation?
-How many of these players have become starters/key players for the first team?
Ask the coach for the names of these players and ask those guys questions about their experience (how it has aligned with what they were told in the recruiting process, how they worked their way up to the first team, what it means to be called up during a season, dynamics between the teams, how often the JV/reserves are being evaluated by the HC, etc.). If the coach struggles to name anybody on the current roster who fits the criteria, it's a good indication that the path they are outlining might not really exist.
Something else to look for (although it will require more homework) is to see how playing time is divided between returners vs. newcomers. At the end of the day, playing time is finite wherever you go. Take a closer look to see how the coach's actions match his words.
For example:
RETURNERS (85%)
-50% returning starters
-20% returning first-team squad players
-15% JV/reserve players
NEWCOMERS (15%)
-15% incoming Freshmen
-0% transfers
In this case, maybe there is a path for players to work their way into the rotation.
Compare this to the following:
RETURNERS (45%)
-40% returning starters
-5% returning first-team squad players
-0% JV/reserve players
NEWCOMERS (55%)
-25% incoming Freshmen
-30% transfers
It's great to hear a coach tell a player about how they can work hard and earn an opportunity to play at the first team level. But if that first team opportunity doesn't come until their Senior season (if ever) with little/no chance of getting minutes, it should at least be taken into consideration before making a deposit.
Hope this helps to paint a better picture so families can make sound decisions rooted in facts rather than anecdotes. An abstract concept with a relatively shallow depth of accessible information needs to be quantified in some way. Hopefully these numbers can help players assess their outlook in the recruiting process and early in the careers.
From there, it's up to the kid to make the most of their opportunity. But it is difficult to watch so many kids consume these used-car salesmen pitches and end their only college experience with a bitter taste and expensive student loan bill.