Quote from: Kuiper on July 15, 2025, 08:06:07 PMQuote from: Kuiper on February 14, 2025, 05:49:51 PMWhat should you do and when?
1. Watch games
This isn't a rule, by any means, but my advice is to start by watching D3 college soccer games (or really any level of college soccer) as early as possible, but definitely by fall of freshman or, at the latest, fall of sophomore year. Taking your kid to watch a local game in person is a great way to get a sense of the atmosphere and the game-day environment and facilities, as well as to see what different campuses look like. In addition, most D3 schools livestream their games for free on their website and many other levels air games on networks like ESPN+, FloSports (a few D3 conferences only stream on Flo) that you can watch if you are a subscriber. Watching a game is a great way initially to get a sense of the different levels, and later to get a sense of different playing/coaching styles and quality within each level. Too many kids insist they want to play college soccer, or they are only willing to play D1, without ever having watched a game, which is kind of crazy when you think about it.
I think I might need to amend this first post to point out that you may want to subscribe to FloSports once you are far enough along in the recruiting process that you are getting serious about potentially considering D3 schools. With 9 conferences now locked into exclusive contracts with FloSports, and possibly more in the works, there are starting to be some economies of scale for signing up and getting access to a lot of the games. You can do it for a couple of months (it looks like it's currently $19.99/month for the monthly plan on FloCollege) and cancel after that. I know no one wants to pay for something that is often a YouTube stream and that used to be available without cost, but given all the money you will end up paying for college visits, ID camps, highlight reels (if you don't do them yourself), recruiting services etc, the price is a drop in the bucket to make sure you have all the information you need about the possible options out there.
And I would really advise against ruling out a school just because it is part of a conference that has a FloSports contract. First, by the time your kid enrolls, your chosen school/conference may be part of FloSports anyway (or FloSports will go out of business and everything will be back to the way it was). Second, this is way too big and consequential a decision to penny pinch on the FloSports subscription. College is really expensive and I get trying to reduce costs whenever possible, but this won't be the marginal cost for you. There are tons of hidden nickle and dime college fees that are way higher than FloSports. At least a FloSports subscription would be optional. It's annoying, but it won't be the most annoying thing the college your son selects does by a long shot.
Yes - far more annoying things like paying for uniforms in D3 on top of tuition costs
